Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Love conquers parental imperfections. Every time.

If you've been reading my blog over the last week or so, you may have seen the recent post I shared that was written by my friend Carly. If you haven't I'm going to toss the link up here so you can check it out later - because her emotional piece about her experience as a foster mom who had to say goodbye to her foster son is such a beautiful one and it's worth reading.

The timing couldn't have been more perfect for this opportunity to cross my path, to talk to you a bit about the AdoptUSKids program.

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The AdoptUSKids program is working to raise awareness about the number of children in the foster care programs across the United States today who are looking for their forever homes.

Since the program started in 2004 over 22,000 children have been placed into homes and officially adopted. Over 35,000 families have registered to adopt children, so there are more families being matched up with these children as we speak (read!).

However, there are currently 402,000 children in foster care across America, and approximately 102,00 of them are waiting to be adopted into families. About 23% of these children who are registered with the program were registered with one or more siblings.

Anyone who has a sibling knows how important these relationships are when you're a child. When you're a child in foster care and have only your sibling(s) to connect with, this is even more the case. A sibling relationship is often the only relationship that is a constant for the child from a young age.

As a social worker I've worked with many sets of foster siblings. Having each other as they switched homes, hoped for a permanent family, made constant adjustments ... all of these difficult transitions? Just a bit easier for them together.

I've listened to brothers and sisters talk about their foster parents and families and how critical having each other was to them as they adjusted to their new homes. New relationships. Sometimes just the constant of having someone to pick on and fight with was enough to help them ease into the change. Because we have to admit it - siblings fight sometimes. But as someone with a younger brother I can tell you that nobody is allowed to come near him or fight with him - except me. That bond is undeniable. Unbreakable.

AdoptUSKids wants to help keep children together with their siblings when they're placed in their forever homes.

If you're looking for information on how to foster or adopt, AdoptUSKids has all the information you need. There are so many pieces of misinformation floating around that the process appears confusing and intimidating from afar. Head over to the AdoptUSKids website to find out more on who CAN adopt, and what myths are out there deterring you for no reason!

You don't have to be perfect to be a parent.

Not a single parent is perfect. Not one of us. You don't have to be, either.

Consider bringing home YOUR forever children. Your life will change as much as theirs do.







Find out more about AdoptUSKids on social media.

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* This post was written on behalf of AdoptUSKids. *

Friday, December 12, 2014

Difficulty conceiving? Look into The Stork OTC Home Conception Aid.

* This post is brought to you by The Stork OTC and The Motherhood. All opinions expressed are strictly my own, however specific product details do come from the sponsor. *
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If you're a mom or hope to be one some day you're likely aware of at least one person in your life who has experienced difficulties conceiving a child. If you haven't learned of anyone with this experience I'm here to report that one day you probably will.

So many women experience issues with fertility. It's something that is not always discussed. It's something that sometimes you won't hear until you share your own story. Then the understanding shares happen.

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I've been provided with some stats with respect to infertility and difficulty conceiving that I'd like to share with you today.

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Be My Guest: Won't it be hard to say goodbye?

Today's guest post was written by my friend Carly. Carly joins us today to talk about her experience as a foster parent. I hope you'll take some time to read what she's written and consider foster care as an option for you and your family. You could change someone's life.




Won't it be hard to say goodbye?

That is one of the first questions people asked when we said we were fostering. 

It IS hard to say goodbye. We've only done it once, so I'm no expert. It is a lot easier to say goodbye than to think about all of the kids out there that need someone to say yes. Children that need someone to look past the hurt saying goodbye would cause. 

Friday, December 5, 2014

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? Mindy Kaling ~ book review

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First of all, I want to be Mindy Kaling's new best friend.

As in IMMEDIATELY.

Her book was so good. I don't know why I waited so long to read it.

I loved it.

She's hilarious. She's real. She's raw. She's entertaining.

Can I give you more adjectives to explain how much I loved the book? Probably. But why bother, right? Just take what I've said so far and go grab yourself a copy. She's so cute.

But you can't be her bestie. That's my job.

Monday, December 1, 2014

Welcome to December!

If you haven't been with me for the last few weeks you missed me writing every day (give or take) for an entire month. Yikes, right?

And yet, here I am. Day one of a new month and I'm inspired to write.

I even started writing this in my head. I think.

Anyway, welcome to December!

In honor of the twelfth month of the year I thought I'd give you a list of twelve.

Twelve what? you ask ... I'm not sure yet. Just twelve.

Things about me. Things I've done this morning. Things I do every day. General things.

Here you have it. My twelve.

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